No Pictures But A Lot of Words
/My two "olders" and I were alone tonight and I was feeling a bit lonely without Awesome Husby around. Noah was busy playing games on the computer, Marilyn was puttering around doing not much of anything and I was feeling sorry for myself. Then I had an awesome idea that changed our whole night. I don't have any pictures of it to add to this post but I want to create one with my words so that years from now I will remember how sweet it was.
We've just gotten back into our school routine and that means I'm reading a novel to them aloud in the mornings while they eat their breakfast. Max tolerates this but my older two - they LOVE it. So do I.
We're reading Tennis Shoes Among the Nephites, which came out when I was 12 and solidly into my Christian only music phase of life so of course I adored that book. My "olders" are enthralled with it too. So tonight when I got lonely and didn't want to put them to bed I made them makeshift beds on the living room floor, turned on our lamp for some ambiance, and I read to them for almost 2 hours. They didn't want me to stop so I just kept going. Until I my voice just couldn't take it anymore and then we went out for ice cream.
Reading is so multifaceted. It's so interactive rather than television's passive. Don't get me wrong; I love a little passive TV binging at the end of the day when I am D.O.N.E. but there is nothing in this world that delights me in the way an author does with their carefully crafted words. Sharing that with my "littles" fulfills and thrills me. Reading aloud to my children brings us all into the story's trance, as if all of our imaginations are magically linked together and we're all seeing the same thing even though there are no pictures. We're not just sitting next to each other. Even from different parts of the room, or even different rooms as it is when I read in the morning when I sit on the stairs so Noah can hear from his bed, Max can hear from his room, and Marilyn can hear from the breakfast table, we are all interacting together. My children love to tell me what they think will happen next or what a certain part makes them think of or wish for. I love to ask them questions to make sure they understand what's happening or, even better, help them think through a social situation they may or may not have faced before.
This morning a few of the main character's friends were bullying another boy and I stopped to talk with my kids about that. Noah has had a hard time at school and has sometimes been on both sides of the bully situation. Without any prompting and in a way that we haven't ever specifically talked about Noah said about the characters that were bullying, "Maybe they aren't bad kids. Maybe they are just a bunch of kids that feel like they get made fun of a lot." He identified. It made my heart sad but it also opened the door for us to talk in a meaningful way that he will connect with on a deeper level about not fitting in and about bullying.
I LOVE literature. I need it. I appreciate it. I admire it.
And I'm so very grateful to be able to pass that love on to my children.
Tonight was a very good night.